Monday, August 01, 2011

LIFE: Should you invite your ex to your wedding???

by Louie Ross Perez 


from funnyweddingmedia.com
 I don't know what's with 2011 but there are a lot of couples who got engaged and will be married if not this year, next year. Preparations for the event are happening as early as now and one of them is enlisting the people that they will invite in their big day. And one of the questions is "should I invite him/her?" "He or she has been a part of my life and I think I should give an invitation". Oh well, before making any decision, please see some of my answers to this question "Should I invite my ex?"  

Who are the exes you should invite?

3) If he or she is the ex who has already moved on from your relationship but still can't seem to find his/her own partner. Wedding is a buffet, let your exes enjoy the food! Maybe they can find their favorite and get an invitation months after. Well it can be a wedding, but it can also be just a baptism!
from sodahead.com
 
2) Invite your ex whom you met in the dark. What I mean is, they are your exes whom you met in the darkest time in your life or worse you were intoxicated at that time that you didn't seem to care how he or she looks like. It can boost the confidence of your partner that they look better than your ex and make them glow in your wedding. But please make sure that your current partner look way better, because if not they might treat each other as competition!

And finally and this is really important and beneficial.
 
from splicedwire.com

1) The ex that you went out with for a short period of time but have different talents that you can use in your wedding. If he/she is into public speaking, invite him/her as a host. If they're into music, make them your wedding singer or the piano player.  Into arts, they can design your invitation or your outfit. Into baking, order your cake from them.  And you can hit the jackpot if he/she is a wedding organizer! If it's possible, make them part of the entourage to give you bigger discounts or better yet charge you for FREE!

Tomorrow I will write who are the exes you SHOULDN'T invite. Wait for that before you send the invitations, it's dangerous! Who knows, it can make or break your wedding.=)

Do you agree or disagree?



4 comments:

  1. hahaha I'm a bit hesitant about asking your ex to host your party. He/She might let slip some romantic stories when the two of you were still together. If this happens, keep a lookout for your bride/groom because you might just see them: A) walking out of the ballroom, B)wielding an axe over your head or C)getting outrageously drunk at the bar (there goes the honeymoon) =P

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  2. Witty! Haha! I definitely did not invite mine. LOL!

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  3. i won't definitely invite any of my exes. not that i am one of those BITTER OCAMPOs, but i just don't see the point of even being friends with them. it's kind of difficult to be friends-friends with someone that you have actually had "pagnanasa" for before. hehehe. the friendship is kind of not that genuine. a lot had happened between the two of you. so somehow, there is still that touch of 'selos' or hatred or even love. it's just GENERALLY awkward. -end-

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  4. ohnie - those were good comments. i really like it. keep on coming.

    squiggly - i have some exes na i'm cool with kaya i can invite them. but some of them, are really no nos. i agree with you with the awkwardness, not a good feeling after all.

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