LIFE:The EXES you should not invite at your wedding!

by Louie Ross Perez

Yesterday I wrote about the exes that you can invite to your wedding because of different reasons. As promised, today I will write about the exes that should not be invited to your big day. It’s really important to take note of this, we don’t want them to ruin our wedding day! Here’s my list:

4) The “OBSESSED EX’! This is the kind of ex who hasn't moved on for years after the separation. He/She is stalking you for the last 3 years, appearing at your dates, texting you as an anonymous person, sending you sweet messages and bad mouthing your current partner. We don’t want them to be at your wedding wearing black instead of white, sobbing loudly while you are walking down the aisle and he/she is eagerly waiting for the moment when the priest will ask “sino ang tumututol sa kasalang to???” 

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 3) The ex that you dumped after he/she did everything for you! Others call them the “BITTER OCAMPOS!” This is the ex that will most likely take revenge. He/She will appear at your wedding with one aim in mind! Make a scene! Show all the people that he/she is better without you. This ex will most probably wear the best gown or the best suit that will definitely outshine your partner.  He/She will bring the richest and the handsomest or the most beautiful partner to introduce to all your common friends! They will complain about the food, make unsolicited comments on the gown, the cake and all. They will be so annoying!

2) I will go on circles now and will say, don’t invite your ex who dumped you! This will bring back a lot of bitter memories. The lines you uttered during the break up will suddenly linger in your mind and your break up song will play into your ears. We don’t want that to happen! Please eliminate them in your list before the “you made me stronger by breaking my heart” song plays in the air!

(You've made me stronger by Regine Velasquez via you tube)

And finally, the one ex you should not invite to your wedding….please don’t.

This is the person you put all your heart into, was the apple of your eye, the love of your life….otherwise known as “THE ONE WHO GOT AWAY”. Your friends who know your story will look at him/her with awkwardness in their faces. You will have the most uncomfortable beso beso in your life. You can’t help but look at him/her before you say I do. And the worst thing that can happen is before you say “I do”, he/she will leave the church because he/she cannot stand the situation. This is really difficult so please, don’t send the invitation. Unless you want to ride a horse and pull off a Julia's thing,  be the "runaway bride or groom".

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Well, there you go. That’s my list for now. But before I leave, some of the readers asked me one question. What if I’m the ex and I’m invited at the wedding of my ex, would I decide to go? My answer is it depends on the ex. I’ll definitely attend my exes’ wedding if we don’t have much of an emotional attachment and we became really good friends after.  But, if she was the one who dumped me, I’ll be the ex who will wear the best suit, arrive in a limo and bring Megan Fox as my girlfriend.  =)

But if she’s “the one that got away”, I would think more than twice. I’m the type of guy who will love someone with all my heart and it will be so hard for me to see the one that I loved for a long time getting married with someone else. So, I won't.



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Before I end this post, I conducted a small survey earlier in the office, to those who have read  my blog and this is their answer to the question “If you were the ex and you’re invited, will you attend?” I also included my comments to their answers. Peace to all!

This guy is really formal, private and self confessed suplado:

I’m friends with all my exes so I don’t think I will have problems attending their wedding. (He has 2 and I believe that exes who became regular friends didn’t have that big emotional attachment when they were together, hehe)

A hopeless romantic girl who’s been single for 3 years:

I won’t attend any of my exes wedding! Especially to those who dumped me! If they will invite me, I would say I’m already booked on that day or I already have a ticket for an international trip. (Well, let her be, hehe)

My officemate who is engaged to a rich man and a former beauty queen answered:

“ Yes of course. If I have already moved on and have the best guy with me, I will attend with the best gown, best body and best make up on that day. But in my wedding, I will definitely not invite the biggest frog in my life. I won’t give the exact name but the first letter of his first name is C.” (pinagpalit sya with someone na sobrang kaiba sa knya but has a lot of similarities with his ex..hmm….)

Till my next blog folks! See you!

LIFE: Should you invite your ex to your wedding???

by Louie Ross Perez 



from funnyweddingmedia.com

 I don't know what's with 2011 but there are a lot of couples who got engaged and will be married if not this year, next year. Preparations for the event are happening as early as now and one of them is enlisting the people that they will invite in their big day. And one of the questions is "should I invite him/her?" "He or she has been a part of my life and I think I should give an invitation". Oh well, before making any decision, please see some of my answers to this question "Should I invite my ex?"  

Who are the exes you should invite?

3) If he or she is the ex who has already moved on from your relationship but still can't seem to find his/her own partner. Wedding is a buffet, let your exes enjoy the food! Maybe they can find their favorite and get an invitation months after. Well it can be a wedding, but it can also be just a baptism!

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2) Invite your ex whom you met in the dark. What I mean is, they are your exes whom you met in the darkest time in your life or worse you were intoxicated at that time that you didn't seem to care how he or she looks like. It can boost the confidence of your partner that they look better than your ex and make them glow in your wedding. But please make sure that your current partner look way better, because if not they might treat each other as competition!

And finally and this is really important and beneficial.

 

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1) The ex that you went out with for a short period of time but have different talents that you can use in your wedding. If he/she is into public speaking, invite him/her as a host. If they're into music, make them your wedding singer or the piano player.  Into arts, they can design your invitation or your outfit. Into baking, order your cake from them.  And you can hit the jackpot if he/she is a wedding organizer! If it's possible, make them part of the entourage to give you bigger discounts or better yet charge you for FREE!

Tomorrow I will write who are the exes you SHOULDN'T invite. Wait for that before you send the invitations, it's dangerous! Who knows, it can make or break your wedding.=)

Do you agree or disagree?